{"id":2020,"date":"2026-06-04T17:04:20","date_gmt":"2026-06-04T15:04:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/?p=2020"},"modified":"2026-06-04T17:07:55","modified_gmt":"2026-06-04T15:07:55","slug":"cokta-tin-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/2026\/06\/04\/cokta-tin-1\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ok da T\u0131n! Yaz\u0131lar\u0131m 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2020\" class=\"elementor elementor-2020\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f916f26 e-con e-atomic-element e-flexbox-base e-f89f7fd \" data-id=\"f916f26\" data-element_type=\"e-flexbox\" data-e-type=\"e-flexbox\" data-interaction-id=\"f916f26\" data-e-type=\"e-flexbox\" data-id=\"f916f26\">\n    \t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e8c5613 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e8c5613\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"xdj266r x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2022 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"576\" height=\"576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/cokta-tin-1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/div><div dir=\"auto\">\u00c7ok da T\u0131n! Yaz\u0131lar\u0131m ( 1 )<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">&#8220;Cinsiyetsiz&#8221; isimli bir heykel \u00e7izdim ve sonucun bana d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc:<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Asl\u0131nda insanlar birbirleriyle ilk temas kurdu\u011fu andan itibaren ortada ad\u0131 konulmam\u0131\u015f bir stres ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Herkes bunun fark\u0131nda ama bu fark\u0131ndal\u0131k genellikle bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir yerde bekliyor. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman ancak sarho\u015fken, ya da ge\u00e7 saatte yaln\u0131z kal\u0131nca kendi sesini duyunca y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. &#8220;Off ya, b\u0131kt\u0131m ya!&#8221; ile ba\u015flayan o i\u00e7 ses&#8230; i\u015fte o an.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Bu stres nereden geliyor?<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">Erkek avlar, kad\u0131n avlan\u0131r. Ya da tam tersi, kim hangi rol\u00fc \u00fcstlendiyse. Bu dinamik evrimsel, biyolojik, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel&#8230; ne derseniz deyin, ger\u00e7ek. \u0130nkar etmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, anlamak i\u00e7in bak\u0131yorum buna.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">Ama \u015funu da s\u00f6ylemek istiyorum: Bu avc\u0131-av ili\u015fkisi var olmaya devam edebilir, ve edecek de. Sorun bu de\u011fil. Sorun bunun bu kadar yorucu, bu kadar gergin, bu kadar performatif olmak zorunda oldu\u011funu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z an ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Peki ya \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsek: Sevdi\u011fimizden ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 cinsiyetsiz g\u00f6rebilsek? Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki sadece bir insan olsa, ne avc\u0131 ne av, ne tehdit ne hedef. Belki o zaman bu kronik gerginlik biraz da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">Cinsiyetsizler. Belki \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck tam da orada.<\/div><div dir=\"auto\">M\u0131sm\u0131l olun<\/div><\/div><div class=\"x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a\"><div dir=\"auto\">Demirhan<\/div><\/div><p>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ok da T\u0131n! Yaz\u0131lar\u0131m ( 1 )&#8221;Cinsiyetsiz&#8221; isimli bir heykel \u00e7izdim ve sonucun bana d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc:Asl\u0131nda insanlar birbirleriyle ilk temas kurdu\u011fu andan itibaren ortada ad\u0131 konulmam\u0131\u015f bir stres ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Herkes bunun [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[62],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazdiklarim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2020"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2020\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2028,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2020\/revisions\/2028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/demirhanocak.com\/site26\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}